"世间万物，难免一死"
这句是我在看着一部卡通片里，一位角色所说的话，一句很简单，却无法避免的事实。
今年里，我陆陆续续送走了两个最亲近的亲戚。一个是我的二舅，一个是我三叔。在短短的半年里，看着他们失去父亲，然我觉得害怕。害怕那一天是我父母的时候，我会怎么办。我不肯定那时的我不会哭，也不看肯定我会哭，唯一很肯定的是，我会很害怕，很寂寞，很怀念，很自责。
很害怕因为他们是我最信赖的人，没了他们我不知道我还会有所谓的安全感。
很寂寞因为他们是我最能坦白的对象，没了他们我不知道还能向谁所我心里的话。
很怀念因为对他们永远把你当小孩看待，不离不弃，没了他们就如失去了自己的一半。
很自责因为没能回报更多，把所有他们所爱和所想要的一一为他们实现，就如他们实现我们所要的。
不过，我也会很开心，因为他们将从真个社会解脱，毫无负担，过着真真的自由。
面临死亡是人生的必经之路，我们永远不知道我们的寿命会有多长，哪怕下一秒钟，就离开了人间。所以，珍惜每一分每一秒，快快乐乐的过每一天，感谢一年的过去，欢迎新的一年。记得人生的喜怒哀乐，因为那是个过程，一个生存的证明。虽然任何人之间会有很多争吵，但是，要爱你身边的每一个人。最重要的是，要对自己的人生满意，无怨无悔。那么，当你离开时，就会对人生感到快乐，没有遗憾。
所以，从今天开始，享受人生。还有，记得要保持笑容。 :)
Monday, 10 November 2008
Friday, 10 October 2008
Tagged by Min Min .... :(
A N S W E R - T R U T H F U L L Y
1. Do you like anyone?
~ i like myself... Haha...
2. Do they know it?
~I knw it
3. Simple or complicated?
~simple
IN - T H E - L A S T - M O N T H - H A V E - Y O U
4. Bought something:
~yup
5. Gotten sick?
~nop...
6. Been hugged?
~Nop
7. Felt stupid?
~always
8. Talked to an ex
~no ex....
9. Missed someone
~Hmm... Haha...
10. Failed a test
~YES!!!!
11. Danced
~ No.
12. Gotten your hair cut?
~ Not within tis year
13. Lied
~ yes... :P
U N I Q U E
14. Nervous habits?
~feel very cold and shiver....
15. Are you double jointed?
~ wat is tat??
16. Can you roll your tongue?
~ nop
17. Can you raise one eyebrow?
~ not really
18. Can you cross your eyes?
~nop
19. Do you make your bed daily?
~i dont make my bed, i bought it... Haha..
20. Do you think you are unique?
~every human is unique...
H A V E - Y O U - E V E R'S
21. Said "I Love you"
~yup...
22. Given money to a homeless person
~nop cox not yet earn money.. bt parents will donate
23. Smoked?
~ nvr tried... not gud for lungs
24. Waited all night for a phone call?
~ nvr...
25. Snuck out?
~i dont wan to be bomb...
26. Sat and looked at the stars?
~Yup... Like tat very much
M A N N E R S
27. Do you swear/curse?
~ sometime, when really angry..
28. Do you ever spit?
~ yup
29. You cook your own food?
~Sometimes.
30. You do your own chores?
~ Sometimes
31. You like beef jerky?
~ nt really...
32. You're happy with your life?
~ I'm happy but nt statisfied
33. You own a dog?
~nvr have the chance.... T.T
34. You spend your money wisely?
~ sometime i dont
35. Do you like to swim?
~yup
36. When you get bored do you call a friend
~ nop.. i'll sms... cheaper bah
D O - Y O U - P R E F E R'S
37. Flowers or angels?
~flowers
38. Gray or black?
~black of course.. i like black!^^
39. Color or black and white photos?
~ color
40. Lust or love?
~love
41. Sunrise or sunset?
~sunset
42. M&Ms or Skittles?
~ M&Ms.
43. Staying up late or waking up early?
~ staying up late... cox can do hw without disturbance
44. Being hot or cold?
~ nt too hot or cold...
45. Winter or Fall?
~ winter..
46. Left or right?
~ right
47. Having 10 acquaintances or 2 best friends?
~ dont knw le... bt nt much la...
48. Sunshine or rain?
~rain
M O R E-H A V E-Y O U-E V E R'S
49. Been Dumped?
~ nop
50. Stolen money from a friend?
~nop
51. Been in a fist fight?
~No.
52. Snuck out of your house?
~ No. -.-'''
53. Had a crush on a teacher?
~No.
54. Seen someone die?
~ Yes.. twice tis year...
55. Been on an airplane?
~ only four five times... hope to get more when grow up... haha...
56. Slept all day?
~ No la... latest is till 11am...
57. Missed someone so much it hurt?
~ Nvr...
58. Fallen asleep during school?
~ feel sleepy but nt fallen asleep
59. Been lonely?
~ sometimes
60. Cheated in a game?
~yup..
61. Been to the ER?:
~wat is ER??
62. Been in a car accident?
~yup.. few times
63. Had detention?
~ nvr
64. Missed your first love?
~not yet first love....
65. Cried yourself to sleep?
~if sthg really sad
66. Sung in the shower?
~ nt really cox broken voice
67. Kissed a complete stranger?
~ crazy ar.....
68. Laughed so hard you cried?
~ always
69. Cheated on a bf/gf?
~ nvr
70. Regretted hurting someone?
~only once, i think.. haha..
71. Regretted loving someone?
~ nvr
I tag:
Chung Chin Fong
Lau Chee Cheng
Frederic Wong
1. Do you like anyone?
~ i like myself... Haha...
2. Do they know it?
~I knw it
3. Simple or complicated?
~simple
IN - T H E - L A S T - M O N T H - H A V E - Y O U
4. Bought something:
~yup
5. Gotten sick?
~nop...
6. Been hugged?
~Nop
7. Felt stupid?
~always
8. Talked to an ex
~no ex....
9. Missed someone
~Hmm... Haha...
10. Failed a test
~YES!!!!
11. Danced
~ No.
12. Gotten your hair cut?
~ Not within tis year
13. Lied
~ yes... :P
U N I Q U E
14. Nervous habits?
~feel very cold and shiver....
15. Are you double jointed?
~ wat is tat??
16. Can you roll your tongue?
~ nop
17. Can you raise one eyebrow?
~ not really
18. Can you cross your eyes?
~nop
19. Do you make your bed daily?
~i dont make my bed, i bought it... Haha..
20. Do you think you are unique?
~every human is unique...
H A V E - Y O U - E V E R'S
21. Said "I Love you"
~yup...
22. Given money to a homeless person
~nop cox not yet earn money.. bt parents will donate
23. Smoked?
~ nvr tried... not gud for lungs
24. Waited all night for a phone call?
~ nvr...
25. Snuck out?
~i dont wan to be bomb...
26. Sat and looked at the stars?
~Yup... Like tat very much
M A N N E R S
27. Do you swear/curse?
~ sometime, when really angry..
28. Do you ever spit?
~ yup
29. You cook your own food?
~Sometimes.
30. You do your own chores?
~ Sometimes
31. You like beef jerky?
~ nt really...
32. You're happy with your life?
~ I'm happy but nt statisfied
33. You own a dog?
~nvr have the chance.... T.T
34. You spend your money wisely?
~ sometime i dont
35. Do you like to swim?
~yup
36. When you get bored do you call a friend
~ nop.. i'll sms... cheaper bah
D O - Y O U - P R E F E R'S
37. Flowers or angels?
~flowers
38. Gray or black?
~black of course.. i like black!^^
39. Color or black and white photos?
~ color
40. Lust or love?
~love
41. Sunrise or sunset?
~sunset
42. M&Ms or Skittles?
~ M&Ms.
43. Staying up late or waking up early?
~ staying up late... cox can do hw without disturbance
44. Being hot or cold?
~ nt too hot or cold...
45. Winter or Fall?
~ winter..
46. Left or right?
~ right
47. Having 10 acquaintances or 2 best friends?
~ dont knw le... bt nt much la...
48. Sunshine or rain?
~rain
M O R E-H A V E-Y O U-E V E R'S
49. Been Dumped?
~ nop
50. Stolen money from a friend?
~nop
51. Been in a fist fight?
~No.
52. Snuck out of your house?
~ No. -.-'''
53. Had a crush on a teacher?
~No.
54. Seen someone die?
~ Yes.. twice tis year...
55. Been on an airplane?
~ only four five times... hope to get more when grow up... haha...
56. Slept all day?
~ No la... latest is till 11am...
57. Missed someone so much it hurt?
~ Nvr...
58. Fallen asleep during school?
~ feel sleepy but nt fallen asleep
59. Been lonely?
~ sometimes
60. Cheated in a game?
~yup..
61. Been to the ER?:
~wat is ER??
62. Been in a car accident?
~yup.. few times
63. Had detention?
~ nvr
64. Missed your first love?
~not yet first love....
65. Cried yourself to sleep?
~if sthg really sad
66. Sung in the shower?
~ nt really cox broken voice
67. Kissed a complete stranger?
~ crazy ar.....
68. Laughed so hard you cried?
~ always
69. Cheated on a bf/gf?
~ nvr
70. Regretted hurting someone?
~only once, i think.. haha..
71. Regretted loving someone?
~ nvr
I tag:
Chung Chin Fong
Lau Chee Cheng
Frederic Wong
Sunday, 28 September 2008
Hi....
Hello...
So long didnt update lo!!!!!!!!
Hehe...
Today update some photos i grab from my friends(their photos)....
So long didnt update lo!!!!!!!!
Hehe...
Today update some photos i grab from my friends(their photos)....
Tis is LMM (her birthday tat day)
Tis is YLC
Haha... CUte pic right..
Tis is YLCHaha... CUte pic right..
Wednesday, 13 August 2008
一個美乃滋罐子跟兩杯咖啡 的故事
這一天的哲學課，教授站上了講台
他卻不發一語，只是從講桌底下拿出了一個空的美乃滋瓶罐。
接著他拿出了一袋高爾夫球
他把整袋的高爾夫球塞進了美乃滋空罐裡
然後教授就問學生同不同意這個罐子已經是滿的了
學生們當然是同意。
接著，教授又從桌子下拿出了一杯小小的鵝卵石
他慢慢地把鵝卵石往罐子倒
邊倒邊搖，
不一會兒
所有的高爾夫球間的縫隙
竟也都填滿了鵝卵石。
這時，教授又問學生同不同意
這個美乃滋罐子已經是滿了？？？
學生當然是同意。
可是，話才剛說完
教授又從講桌底下拿出了一杯細沙子
教授又用同樣的方法
邊倒邊搖的把沙子填滿了鵝卵石之間的小縫隙。
教授又問了大家同不同意
這回罐子是真正的滿了？？？
同學說應該是全滿了，沒有空間了。
想不到同學才剛答完話
教授又從講桌下拿出了兩杯咖啡來
開始徐徐地往美乃滋罐子裡倒
直到兩杯咖啡全部到進罐子裡，一滴也不剩。
倒完咖啡後
教授笑著對同學們說：
『現在的美乃滋罐子才是真正的滿了啦。』
同學們也跟著笑了起來
就在整個教室的歡笑聲裡
教授說話了
『你們知道我今天做這個表演，是要告訴你們什麼嗎？
我是要用這個美乃滋罐來告訴你們一個道理
一個關於我們一生的哲理。
這個美乃滋空罐就是我們的人生
高爾夫球就是我們生命中的一些大事
例如：上帝，家庭，小孩，朋友，健康，還有你的摯愛。
生命裡沒有那些小鵝卵石或是沙子沒關係
可是要是缺了這些大事情
我們的生命根本沒有意義。
小小的鵝卵石就是我們生命中的其他的事情
例如：工作，房子，車子等等東西。
至於那細沙子就是我們生命中的小事
那些細微不重要的瑣事。
今天我的表演
如果是一開始就先把沙子灌滿美乃滋罐子
那就根本沒有空間好放入高爾夫球跟鵝卵石
同樣地，如果我是先倒鵝卵石
那也是會沒有空間好給高爾夫球。
我們的生命就是這樣的
如果你盡是把寶貴的時間花在細微的瑣事上
你就不可能有時間去處裡重要的事情。
所以，我們該多花時間去注意
那些會關係到我們快樂與幸福的事情
多跟我們的小孩一起
多去陪陪我們的父母、祖父母，多些時間給家人
多注意自己的身體健康
不要擔心家事做不完
不用擔心房子還沒粉刷
不要擔心花園還沒整理
我們會找到時間來做這些事情的
先多花些心思在那些重要的大事情上吧
生命只有一回
我們把事情的輕重緩急跟優先順序弄清楚
生命才會有意義
教授說到這裡
有個同學舉手了
教授，那兩杯咖啡又代表著什麼呢？
『我很高興你問這個，』教授回答道
這兩杯咖啡就是要告訴我們
不管我們的美乃滋罐看起來是裝得多滿
我們總是可以有空間跟朋友一起享受杯咖啡的！
我們的一生似乎總是這麼的忙
有這麼多的事情要處裡
似乎是一天的 24 小時總是不夠用？
如果你還是這麼想的話
想想『一個美乃滋罐子跟兩杯咖啡』的故事吧。
他卻不發一語，只是從講桌底下拿出了一個空的美乃滋瓶罐。
接著他拿出了一袋高爾夫球
他把整袋的高爾夫球塞進了美乃滋空罐裡
然後教授就問學生同不同意這個罐子已經是滿的了
學生們當然是同意。
接著，教授又從桌子下拿出了一杯小小的鵝卵石
他慢慢地把鵝卵石往罐子倒
邊倒邊搖，
不一會兒
所有的高爾夫球間的縫隙
竟也都填滿了鵝卵石。
這時，教授又問學生同不同意
這個美乃滋罐子已經是滿了？？？
學生當然是同意。
可是，話才剛說完
教授又從講桌底下拿出了一杯細沙子
教授又用同樣的方法
邊倒邊搖的把沙子填滿了鵝卵石之間的小縫隙。
教授又問了大家同不同意
這回罐子是真正的滿了？？？
同學說應該是全滿了，沒有空間了。
想不到同學才剛答完話
教授又從講桌下拿出了兩杯咖啡來
開始徐徐地往美乃滋罐子裡倒
直到兩杯咖啡全部到進罐子裡，一滴也不剩。
倒完咖啡後
教授笑著對同學們說：
『現在的美乃滋罐子才是真正的滿了啦。』
同學們也跟著笑了起來
就在整個教室的歡笑聲裡
教授說話了
『你們知道我今天做這個表演，是要告訴你們什麼嗎？
我是要用這個美乃滋罐來告訴你們一個道理
一個關於我們一生的哲理。
這個美乃滋空罐就是我們的人生
高爾夫球就是我們生命中的一些大事
例如：上帝，家庭，小孩，朋友，健康，還有你的摯愛。
生命裡沒有那些小鵝卵石或是沙子沒關係
可是要是缺了這些大事情
我們的生命根本沒有意義。
小小的鵝卵石就是我們生命中的其他的事情
例如：工作，房子，車子等等東西。
至於那細沙子就是我們生命中的小事
那些細微不重要的瑣事。
今天我的表演
如果是一開始就先把沙子灌滿美乃滋罐子
那就根本沒有空間好放入高爾夫球跟鵝卵石
同樣地，如果我是先倒鵝卵石
那也是會沒有空間好給高爾夫球。
我們的生命就是這樣的
如果你盡是把寶貴的時間花在細微的瑣事上
你就不可能有時間去處裡重要的事情。
所以，我們該多花時間去注意
那些會關係到我們快樂與幸福的事情
多跟我們的小孩一起
多去陪陪我們的父母、祖父母，多些時間給家人
多注意自己的身體健康
不要擔心家事做不完
不用擔心房子還沒粉刷
不要擔心花園還沒整理
我們會找到時間來做這些事情的
先多花些心思在那些重要的大事情上吧
生命只有一回
我們把事情的輕重緩急跟優先順序弄清楚
生命才會有意義
教授說到這裡
有個同學舉手了
教授，那兩杯咖啡又代表著什麼呢？
『我很高興你問這個，』教授回答道
這兩杯咖啡就是要告訴我們
不管我們的美乃滋罐看起來是裝得多滿
我們總是可以有空間跟朋友一起享受杯咖啡的！
我們的一生似乎總是這麼的忙
有這麼多的事情要處裡
似乎是一天的 24 小時總是不夠用？
如果你還是這麼想的話
想想『一個美乃滋罐子跟兩杯咖啡』的故事吧。
Thursday, 7 August 2008
You Are a Good Friend Because You're Loyal |
 You stick with your friends no matter what, even if you feel like they're doing the wrong thing. You believe in letting people figure out their own path in life. It's not your place to interfere. And part of your loyalty means that you'll do a lot for your friends. You definitely go the extra mile. You'll even do great things for friends without them asking. After all, that's what friendship is all about. You are truly a friend for life. And you have friends you've known since you were a kid. Your friends can count on you to do a favor, remember a birthday, or just be there to listen. Your friends need you most when: They can't turn to anyone else You really can't be friends with: Fickle people who change friends quickly Your friendship quote: "Friendship doubles your joys, and divides your sorrows." |
Tuesday, 5 August 2008
End of Holiday!!!!
Hi everyone....
I've finally returned to update my blog since new semester already started.
Yesterday was my first day of school and i had such a hard time to get myself into the mood of studying :p
My mind still feels like playing for a few days since i've been playing for more than a month by watching all sort of anime..
it's really hard to get concentrated in class and i cant even write properly (too long didn't write)
Anyway, i did have a great time talking to friends but also sad since i didn't get my loan .. T.T
I really need tat loan!!!! I jux don't get it why it's always so hard for me to get approved??
Hmm.... No luck with money???
Hope i get it in the next listing...
Holiday was really fun because i've went out to work for the first time in my life... My dad never allowed me to work when i was in secondary school and i finally had my chance.. Hehe...
However, i've only worked for a week in a fast food shop and 3 days in pc fair...
The week in the fast food shop was quite interesting cox i'm working as a waitress and found out that it's really isn't a nice job. I had to stand there no matter there is customer or not and clean up all the mess the customers made on the table. I've also realize that some people really waste their food... They just ordered food that is more than they can eat... Cleaning up b4 and after the operating hours is really tiring too.. And most important of all, tat experience told me tat i should eat more of my mum cooking that outside food.. WHY?? Haha... go for a work at fast food shop and u'll understand wat i mean...
As for pc fair, i worked as a promoter. I personally hated promoter because when they started to talk to me, i jux find it very hard to reject the product they are promoting even though it's not the brand i wanted to buy. So i always ended up buying another different brand from what i wan. Huh... Really have to change this habit...
In order to give myself a chance to change this habit, i worked at pc fair promoting printer.. It was really fun there cox i feel so proud when the printers were sold out after i promoted to the customers.. And i also met a lot of old friends or old classmates and also teachers or lectures.. 3 days standing for nearly 12 hours a day really tired me up but it's worth it.. I've used up my 3 days salary to buy myself an external hard disk (250GB) as a reward.. Now i can jux download wat ever anime i wan to watch and dont have to worry for space anymore... And most of all, it feels nice jux to spend the money u earn urself..
This holiday i ended up trying for two jobs and even though i didn't work for a very long time at both job, i treasure the experience i had and cant' wait to go for another job for the next holiday.. But for nw, study is more important... Haha...
Kampate for all my friends in the new semester and also those who will be having their test soon...
I've finally returned to update my blog since new semester already started.
Yesterday was my first day of school and i had such a hard time to get myself into the mood of studying :p
My mind still feels like playing for a few days since i've been playing for more than a month by watching all sort of anime..
it's really hard to get concentrated in class and i cant even write properly (too long didn't write)
Anyway, i did have a great time talking to friends but also sad since i didn't get my loan .. T.T
I really need tat loan!!!! I jux don't get it why it's always so hard for me to get approved??
Hmm.... No luck with money???
Hope i get it in the next listing...
Holiday was really fun because i've went out to work for the first time in my life... My dad never allowed me to work when i was in secondary school and i finally had my chance.. Hehe...
However, i've only worked for a week in a fast food shop and 3 days in pc fair...
The week in the fast food shop was quite interesting cox i'm working as a waitress and found out that it's really isn't a nice job. I had to stand there no matter there is customer or not and clean up all the mess the customers made on the table. I've also realize that some people really waste their food... They just ordered food that is more than they can eat... Cleaning up b4 and after the operating hours is really tiring too.. And most important of all, tat experience told me tat i should eat more of my mum cooking that outside food.. WHY?? Haha... go for a work at fast food shop and u'll understand wat i mean...
As for pc fair, i worked as a promoter. I personally hated promoter because when they started to talk to me, i jux find it very hard to reject the product they are promoting even though it's not the brand i wanted to buy. So i always ended up buying another different brand from what i wan. Huh... Really have to change this habit...
In order to give myself a chance to change this habit, i worked at pc fair promoting printer.. It was really fun there cox i feel so proud when the printers were sold out after i promoted to the customers.. And i also met a lot of old friends or old classmates and also teachers or lectures.. 3 days standing for nearly 12 hours a day really tired me up but it's worth it.. I've used up my 3 days salary to buy myself an external hard disk (250GB) as a reward.. Now i can jux download wat ever anime i wan to watch and dont have to worry for space anymore... And most of all, it feels nice jux to spend the money u earn urself..
This holiday i ended up trying for two jobs and even though i didn't work for a very long time at both job, i treasure the experience i had and cant' wait to go for another job for the next holiday.. But for nw, study is more important... Haha...
Kampate for all my friends in the new semester and also those who will be having their test soon...
May luck be with you :)
Wednesday, 16 July 2008
一道终身受用的测试题
你开着一辆车。
在一个暴风雨的晚上。
你经过一个车站。
有三个人正在焦急的等公共汽车。
一个是快要临死的老人，他需要马上去医院。
一个是医生，他曾救过你的命，你做梦都想报答他。
还有一个女人/男人，她/他是你做梦都想嫁/娶的人，也许错过就没有了。
但你的车只能在坐下一个人，你会如何选择？
我不知道这是不是一个对你性格的测试, 因为每一个回答都有他自己的原因。
老人快要死了，你首先应该先救他。
你也想让那个医生上车，因为他救过你，这是个好机会报答他。
还有就是你的梦中情人。错过了这个机会。你可能永远不能遇到一个让你这么心动的人了。
在200个应征者中，只有一个人被雇佣了，他并没有解释他的理由，他只是说了以下的话：
'给医生车钥匙，让他带着老人去医院，而我则留下来陪我的梦中情人一起等公车!' 每个人我认识的人都认为以上的回答是最好的，但没有一个人（包括我在内）一开始就想到。
小哲理：
是否是因为我们从未想过要放弃我们手中已经拥有的优势（车钥匙）?
有时，如果我们能放弃一些我们的固执，狭隘，和一些优势的话，我们可能会得到更多。
在一个暴风雨的晚上。
你经过一个车站。
有三个人正在焦急的等公共汽车。
一个是快要临死的老人，他需要马上去医院。
一个是医生，他曾救过你的命，你做梦都想报答他。
还有一个女人/男人，她/他是你做梦都想嫁/娶的人，也许错过就没有了。
但你的车只能在坐下一个人，你会如何选择？
我不知道这是不是一个对你性格的测试, 因为每一个回答都有他自己的原因。
老人快要死了，你首先应该先救他。
你也想让那个医生上车，因为他救过你，这是个好机会报答他。
还有就是你的梦中情人。错过了这个机会。你可能永远不能遇到一个让你这么心动的人了。
在200个应征者中，只有一个人被雇佣了，他并没有解释他的理由，他只是说了以下的话：
'给医生车钥匙，让他带着老人去医院，而我则留下来陪我的梦中情人一起等公车!' 每个人我认识的人都认为以上的回答是最好的，但没有一个人（包括我在内）一开始就想到。
小哲理：
是否是因为我们从未想过要放弃我们手中已经拥有的优势（车钥匙）?
有时，如果我们能放弃一些我们的固执，狭隘，和一些优势的话，我们可能会得到更多。
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