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感触良多

2011-12-19T02:01:00.001+08:00

今天的我，感触良多。
首先是今天参加了一场婚礼。有的时候，我真不明白为何要有酒席。因为觉得它是一件很麻烦的事情。不过，今天当我看到新娘的母亲坐在她旁边，她那副开心又带点骄傲的表情，真的觉得婚礼其实不是两个人的事而是两个家庭的结合。酒席就是为了让父母对他们的亲朋戚友们知道，我的儿女已长大成人，陈家立业。这也是他们对儿女们的期盼，希望儿女们幸福快乐。而且，他们也希望在他们还健在的一天，能见证儿女们最快乐的一天。

就像电影情节里所看到的，父亲牵着女儿的手步入礼堂，把他辛辛苦苦捧在手掌心的掌上明珠托福给另一个男人。希望的是女儿能幸福，被人疼爱，呵护，就如同他一样爱她。

婚礼是给养大您的父母一个交代，告诉他们“爸妈，我长大了，就要有自己的家庭了。你们的养育之恩陈旧了今天的我，让我有信心为我将来的家庭负责。请不用再为我操心了。”

第二件事呢，就是我今天去了教堂。原因呢，是去见证两位朋友的洗礼。发现原来大家都长大了，可以为自己做决定。为自己的人生负责任了～我能为我自己的未来负责吗？

第三件就是今天之后，大家就要各奔东西了. 二零一一年十二月十六日，我们完成了学业。相处了四年的朋友正式要为自己的未来打算了。有的回家乡，有的继续深造，有的出国公干，有的在别的省份公干。天下没有不散的宴席。祝大家一路平安，快快乐乐。虽然会面对各种困难，但不要放弃，抬头挺胸，往前冲，因为你有我们的祝福。

给未来的我

2011-09-20T00:11:00.003+08:00

给未来的我：
我在踏入大学的阶段，和到今天我都快毕业了，我变很多吗？
一年里，看一两次电影，偶尔晚上出去，比较常有去的就是喝茶～
你竟然说我花的是无谓的钱，因为钱是你赚的～
比起别人，我很宅了哦～
几乎两到三星期才出一个晚上，你却看到的只是我总数出去几天～
真希望你使用一年365天来算，而不是凭你记忆这几年里累计的数据～

别说我乱花钱～
我一个月用两百块钱,里面包含了所有的吃喝玩乐，没有一个月是超支的。就算我超支了，下个月绝对把钱给补回去。
唯独你们去旅行半个月，我得买菜自己煮和偶尔的外出吃饭。那两个星期里，我只用了五十块钱，和朋友们出去玩了一整天，其它的全都是用来买家里的东西和一些东西如车油费，电话费。

你永远都不会明白吧，我不会乱花钱~我比你更爱钱～
我知道没钱很辛苦，我知道你苦过，也知道你赚钱难～
不过，请你相信我，我没乱花钱，我知道我在做什么。
我承认，我很爱买一些可爱的东西。但我在买之前，会想很久，看看值不值得买～
朋友都说我很麻烦，挑三拣四，优柔寡断～
十次里，有九次是买不成功的。

我会去打工，因为我知道要你付我的音乐费绝对是不太可能。
你不爱我学音乐，理由是把书学好，音乐是不必要的东西。
我就要学音乐，也许我没音乐天赋，不过我想尝试。我想试一试，看看自己可以走多远。

我不知道如何的我才能达到你省钱的孩子～
我不知道如何的我才能满足你对孩子的定义～
我不知道如何的我才能跟你沟通～
我不知道如何的我才能知道你～
我不知道，我不知道～

今天的我，不知道。
明天的我，也不知道。
后天的我，也不知道。
未来的我，也许知道。
不过现在的我，真的不知道。

因为不知道，所以我选择沉默～
因为不知道，所以我选择避开～
因为不知道，所以我选择在这里，记载这一切，给以后的我。

我想知道，我的想法会和你一样吗？

像风一样自由

2011-08-22T14:30:00.005+08:00

我要像风一样，
自由的飘扬，
享受人生

我要像风一样，
高傲但温柔，
一步一步迈向梦想

我要像风一样，
无色无味，
却不可或缺

我要像风一样，
时而飘柔，时而狂暴，
毫无规则

我要像风一样，
微微的飘过人的身边，
给与人们无尽的包容

我要像风一样，
毫无阻挠，
迈向无边无尽的世界

我要像风一样，
享有自由，
别怪我，
无法挽留，
应为我更爱自由

作者：Goodme89～ xD

送上一首歌～《我像风一样自由》

我像风一样自由
就像你的温柔无法挽留
你推开我伸出的双手
你走吧最好别回头
无尽的漂流自由的渴求
所有沧桑独自承受
我给你温柔你拒绝接受
我给你双手真实的感受
我给你自由记忆的长久
我给你所有但不能停留
我像风一样自由

人生真的那么难吗？

2011-06-17T00:52:00.004+08:00

人生真的那么难吗！！？

打个比方吧，被人耍约。如果有个交代还好，别一声都没有。
不过，这都算小事，因为这是人生必定遇到的。

说做人难，也真的蛮难的。永远不知道那一份那一秒踩到“地雷”，被别人说得没一句好话。。
这就酿就了人会口是心非，也就是人的一生大部分的时间都在说谎。

所以啊，这一生，最要珍惜几样东西：
1.自己-人常说，在爱和包容别人之前，先学会爱惜自己。一个无法把自己给照顾好的人，是无法照顾别人的。
2.家人-永远是您的避风港。
3.朋友-所谓在家靠父母，在外靠朋友。尤其是遇到了伯乐，更是值得珍惜，因为不是每个人都遇得到的。

有了你该珍惜的东西，世界就美好多，人就没那么难当了。

哈哈。。

（个人意见而已哦！！）

屁股

2011-01-07T09:37:00.007+08:00

哈哈....
刚才在厕所里，忽然之间想起了以前在补习中心听到的一个笑话～ xP

那一年遇到了一个利用沟通来教书的补习老师。所以我们的班不像平常那种排得整整齐齐，而是把所有的桌子围成圆形，三角形，各式各样的形状。每一个星期都会有变化。大家会围在那里学习，过后一起来分享分享趣事。

记得那一次，大家都在和老师闲聊，班上的一位同学忽然问 "除了大便以外，你们知道屁股的两大功能吗？快想想。"

大家顿时努力想了。给出了"放屁用的" 答案。

那为同学就说"答对了一半，哈哈。。大家再努力想一想，很简单的，再想一想。"

大家又努力想了。不过没有进展，就催她把答案说出来～

那为同学就不慌不忙的说"另外一个功能就是'切大便用的'。"

一瞬间，大家大笑了，还是很大声的那种。因为真的是一个想也想不到的答案。

那一天，我们大概又被隔壁的同学羡慕／埋怨了吧。

哈哈。。。
回想这些回忆，真的觉得时间过得太快了～那已经是七八年前的事了～
确实是很美好的回忆

回憶，總像彩虹，曾經如此絢爛地掛在天空中。(quoted from blog.udn.com)

Welcome 2011 and Gud bye to 2010

2011-01-01T22:59:00.003+08:00

Well, here we are, stepping our feet into the first day of 2011 ^^

Does anyone sense any different at all?

For me there's no difference since it's jux another normal new day

Haha...

Since we're already in a new year, let's work hard in achieving what we aim for and best of luck in this new year

Happy New Year

~ (-) Merry Christmas (-) ~

2010-12-24T13:25:00.005+08:00

Once again we're celebrating Christmas Day! Yohoo hoo hoo!!
Last year christmas was celebrated by participating in the countdown at The Spring. That was with Danny, CCF and LCC~ Oh, we did get to meet up with Fred who was singing K at tat time. Haha~ It was fun tat time since we get to see fireworks and chit chat the whole nite and met a fren of mine which i surprisingly found out sthg~ bt tat was all an old story now. This indicated things really changes as time passed.One thing tat's nt so great about last year celebration was the parking! It was congested!!! I think this is because there was not much of places for us to enjoy and celebrate the events. This year i'll still be celebrating at the same place and I think it will still be congested.. So i planned to go a bit early then our appointed time to grab for some parking spaces (it's a bit hard nw since im nt allow to go off early from office). Anyways, i think i'll still be able to make it in time for some parking spaces. This year i'll be celebrating with all girls insted. LOL~~ I hope to gain some memorable memories tonite xP

MERRY CHRISTMAS

有的时候，我真不知该怎么办

2010-11-02T20:49:00.005+08:00

我无言以对，我无法说明，我无法了解，我无法解释，我无法表白。。

他的想法，他的固执，他的脾气，他的愿望，他的说谎，我得接受。。

在这个只有他说了就算的世界里，我得去了解。。

我好想好想把我的烦恼说给你听，不过我知道你永远只会说："那算什么，你出来社会你就知道那些都不算什么”。

你一旦听到你不想听到的东西，你就不会让我有解释的机会。

举一个最简单的例子，手提电脑屏幕要修理需要接近一千块，我尝试解释我的想法给你知道。我想告诉你说，以其花上这么多钱维修，还倒不如买架新的，把坏的屏幕拆了，装上dekstop的屏幕（因为dekstop也坏了），这样就省很多了。我还来不及把话说完，也没解释市面上的手提电脑其实很便宜，你就把我的话打断了，只因为你听到了我说“换架新的吧”，就不要再往下听了。

你觉得我出去玩很不好。但你有没有想过，一个星期里，我只出去一个晚上，最迟也在12点多回家，甚至有的时候都没出去。去的地方只是看看戏，吃宵夜，逛街。平常不是在家就在学校。我还做的不够好吗？

我可以了解，你希望我除了读书时间，最好在家，可以温习功课。这样既省钱，又有意。不过，有一件事你重来没发现吧，那就是我很难交朋友。我无法对着一个陌生人说话，接着就可以聊起来。我很了解我有交流问题，所以我尝试改变。我希望透过和朋友和朋友一起出去，能让我变成一个有话题的人，而不是永远听着别人说，感觉自己什么都不知道，好像井底之蛙，就像你常说我见识的不够，那是因为你重来不让我去尝试。

也许你永远都不会明白吧。我一直在改变自己，是为了我的将来着想。我很了解，如果我继续那么胆小，不独立，不敢发言，不敢交朋友，那我就注定一辈子无法好好的表现。

我真的不知所措了，我好累好累，好想一睡就别醒了。有太多令我很烦很烦的事了，尤其是学校的，不过我不可以表现出来因为那是我自己的事。我好希望最起码在家我可以不需要面对你给我的莫名烦恼。

算了，不管我说再多，你永远也只会说我不了解你们的想法，自以为是。也许到我到你的年纪的时候我会了解。不过我坚决相信，如果你不让你的孩子有解释的机会，那就是很失败了～

放松

2010-10-31T01:05:00.004+08:00

今天，30/10/2010，我正式放我自己一天假，一天什么都不想，什么都不管，把所有心事都抛到脑后，让时间和环境来填满自己的心。

一大早，我本来就要去帮朋友的忙的。不过呢，因为前一晚的失眠导致我脑袋很痛，无法起床。所以，我耍约了。。xP
我只有在最后的两小时去看看，拍拍照。。真是抱歉！

回到家，没人在，父母出去了，没等我 (T.T)我就上上网，找了甜甜，看看她还好吗。我知道我不会安慰人，我只会去问问，然后让她诉苦，默默地听。有的时候，我真的觉得我是个不称职的朋友。

原本想要和她用skype聊天的，电脑就出点问题，无法查到我的microphone。真是气死我。难道我的烦恼还不够吗？算了，就先别管那个了，多一两天再烦。

晚上呢，就和两个老老的朋友，一个叫敏敏，一个叫丽娟，去“pakto"。在悠疑不觉的情况下，我们去到了“吴方记”。过后呢，就往“spring"去了。还好没去看“HISS"这部戏。要不然我可能就睡不着了。我们最后选择了去唱歌。一去就两个小时半。我第一次把自己大大声的唱，把一切令我心烦的，纳闷的，统统抛弃。。哈哈，现在爽快多了。也可以坦诚的面对一些我向来都没有发觉的东西，或许应该说是我故意别去发现的吧。

现在呢，我可以大声地说，我可以的，我回来了，我该为更长远的路迈进。过去就让它去吧，因为那是成长的一个过程。所谓，经一事，长一智。大家为更好的未来前进。冲冲冲！！！！

感谢两位的陪伴，让我有了一个美好的夜晚。。谢谢无法完美的代表我想表达感激，不过还是谢谢，谢谢。有你们真好（^.^)

提不起劲 =.=

2010-09-05T22:06:00.004+08:00

最近，不管做什么，都提不起劲！！！！

真糟糕哦！！

Assignment要截止了，我还在飘飘的，都丢给朋友做了，真是的！！他们现在应该很不爽吧！！

我好恨现在的我，好像快快把读书的心情捡回来！！！

我读书的心啊！！您在哪儿啊？快回来吧！！

Happy Birthday to mY beLoved Country

2010-08-31T17:58:00.004+08:00

Hmm... I've been saying i wan to learn guitar since form 3, bt nvr really get myself involved into it since i knw my parents wont allow me.. Haha.. However, i've finally get to learn guitar after four year from then..

I've started learning guitar since the beginning of tis year... On tis day, the independant day of Malaysia, i'm glad to say tat i've been continuing learning it for seven month le (one month break cox gt final exam) and i haven't think of giving up yet.. Haha... My parents should be surprise though cox their reason for nt letting me learn is due to the fact that they're worried that i will give up half way and it will be a waste of money...

Guitar lesson is fun. You get to learn a lot of stuff bt the pain on the fingers is hard to "tahan" but worth it lo.. However, learning music really is costly. My tuition fees goes from rm60 to rm80 ><...

Sometimes, i wonder how long do i have to learn and practice to properly finish playing a song without either getting stuck or slow in tempo... ==

No matter hw, it's fun and not the time for me to give up yet...

I hope by the next Independent Day, i'll be more pro in guitar

HaPPY BirtHday to my bEloved Home

钱重要吗？

2010-08-30T22:02:00.005+08:00

我蛮常把钱挂在嘴边，说钱很重要。有些人也许对我如此的性格很有意见吧，不过我有我的原因。

钱重要吗？我可以很肯定地说，很重要。所谓，“钱多不嫌少，没钱万万不能”。为什么呢？因为啊，这个世界使用钱来做交易的。常常听人家说，亲情比钱重要，因为钱可以赚回来。这句话是千真万确的，是个铁则，因为人是有感情的。人类需要感情来活下去。不过，有没有这样想过呢，没钱的话，你无法给你心爱的父母，爱人和孩子他们需要的，也无法保护他们了。

给个举例吧：现在家里的一个成员生病了，需要花一笔很膨大的医药费，而且是立刻的。您要怎么办呢？去借吗？人家可不一定要借你呢。如果，现在您有一笔存款，也就可以暂时的把这件事给解决，然后再去想办法。

另外一个例子吧：人家说：“在家靠父母，在外靠朋友”。这句话说得对，说得好, 说得妙。朋友很重要。大家应该也知道朋友间最好不要谈钱，“谈钱伤感情”。交朋友，就像应酬，需要钱，需要时间，唯一不一样的就要交心。

要记住，亲情和友情固然重要，却无法填饱您的肚子。 xD

生日快乐

2010-08-14T10:56:00.007+08:00

敏敏小姐

近来好吗？很抱歉如果觉得这是一句太客套的问候语，因为我希望得到的回答是“我很好”。今天是您的生日，不过你这个不称职的朋友又没帮你庆祝庆祝，实在很抱歉。哈哈。。回想起来，真的没帮你庆祝几次呢。。
不过，在这里，我很真心的对你说，

生日快乐

有个愉快的一天

还蛮有意思的。。

2010-08-14T10:51:00.001+08:00

天蠍，生於秋深。性喜靜，意清幽。愛之切，怨亦深。本質輕名利，但擁有成名得利的天賦。　　偏重靈與肉的完美結合。直覺力之準之銳，行動力之瀟灑之特,常令徒有虛表之人忌憤不已。天蠍，一個別具一格的星座。格調分明有別常人，心胸高妙不露於表。常容人難容之事，亦笑人可笑之處。　　對於朋友，重質不重量，高度要求知心。寧可孤獨，也不違心。對於愛情，寧缺毋濫。寧可抱憾終生，也不苟且湊合。風流不羈的言行下，執著追求一種宗教意識的愛情信仰。內心具有高度責任性，忠誠性，自律性以及矛盾性。浪漫儒雅，風趣超脫。擁有奇異誘人的容貌氣質。根本上，提倡由愛生性的性愛模式，鄙視純粹的獸性性行為，但，自己卻又常在意志薄弱時，自虐般地沉溺其間。　　天蠍大多恩怨分明，黑白絕不混餚。猶如包公，寧可得罪眾官，也要獎懲公道。多思少言的特質，齊全透徹的智慧，使一切真相假面恐慌不已。因此，本質靜默孤僻的天蠍們極易招惹他人的非難和灌上莫須有的罪名。而其強硬又柔弱的本質，常使其背負黑鍋也不辯護，不低頭。典型的"獨當千古錯，冷漠自逍遙"的天蠍風格。只有在忍無可忍時，天蠍才會真正採取報復行為。可也因其很多時候過於忍辱負重，好比老實人發火，報復也就更顯突兀強勁，反令圓滑的小人真正的禍首們惱羞成怒，藉機大肆渲染。由於天蠍有隱忍為善的一面，更有別緻的獨特氣質，從而也導致了天蠍倍受他人嫉妒卻常被反咬一口的現象出現。也因為典型的天蠍,並不擅長疏通改善人際關係，更不善於有效地表達澄清自己，從而成為了十二星座裡最具爭議的一個星座。　　天蠍們擁有天賦般靈性的思維，結合現實的洞察，產生了異於常人的思索角度愛情觀，友情觀，人生觀，皆如此。由於意識超常，天蠍們總是：苦於紅塵無知音，不如隱形愛孤獨。天蠍的確就是這樣極端：不是最另類的現代人，就是最另類的原始人。　　人們研究天蠍的誤區在於沒有能力到達天蠍的心理根本。　　其實，天蠍們一生都在尋求知心的朋友，同時他們也容忍對手的存在，但，並非製造敵人。要知道，天蠍本性不好戰，但具備戰鬥的智慧和能量。請注意：這是關鍵。所以你可以成為天蠍的對手和朋友，但，不要把天蠍當敵人。因為，天蠍從不主動侵犯他人的利益。你也不要做些低層次的敵對事情，那只能顯得你自己無聊挫敗。比如：如果你煽動眾人，想用流言蜚謠打擊算計，甚至孤立天蠍，那麼不久你就會發現天蠍依舊活得很灑脫，很獨特。因為，他們本來沒有把你當敵人，某種意義上，是你自己"自作多情"，以小人之心度君子之腹了。而這種俗不可耐的敵對伎倆，對於天蠍們來說，無疑是一堆可笑差勁的破招。天蠍生性渴望理解,卻不奢求理解，安於孤獨，更能樂於孤獨。天蠍的優勢在於，對於別有用心的人，能夠一眼看穿，並完全做到視若無睹。也許，當你自鳴得意時，天蠍想的正是——不和這頭牲口一般見識！看，天蠍就是這樣的心態，清高地忍讓，憂鬱地承受，卻，酷得乾脆利落，宛如一位高超的劍手，不是不過招，只是你非對手。為什麼你非對手，因為你已經把自己立意為敵人。對於敵人，不用過招。興趣無時不屑一顧。興趣來時，一劍定勝負。這種徹骨的冷靜和孤高，也正是天蠍人雖不招惹別人，卻還是招致陰險有毒的惡名的根本。而，也只有天蠍自己知道，真正惡毒的其實是你！但是，一切也都沒有用，要知道，能夠忍受孤獨的人，也就是最無所畏懼的人了。這也就是天蠍為什麼可以在鋪天蓋地的惡名謠傳裡，依舊活出自己風格的原因。某個角度來說，才思橫溢的天蠍人，正是從別人不切實際的攻擊誹謗裡，看到了自己與眾不同的價值。因為，沒有人會化很大的心血很多的精力，對一個平庸無常的人做太多的關注。顯然，天蠍是別具一格的。我本善良，我本真實，這樣的句子，用在天蠍身上是最恰當不過了。每隻天蠍似乎從出生那天起，就注定要為自己的獨特而歷經許多風波。對於人性，天蠍從來看得比所有人透徹。　　可以說他們極端，但是，他們無法不真實地活出自己。也許，只有"曲高合寡"這四個字，才是孤獨奇特的天蠍們最好的詮釋。　　天蠍。星象書上說，誕生在深秋的蠍子是最複雜的。同意這句話。因為蠍子可以根據需要在具體環境把自己塑造成適合的角色，是個善於戴著面具生活的人。但內心本我的強大力量又讓他們在某個時刻不由自主地顯現出其蠍子冷酷陰鬱的一面。幾乎沒有任何一個蠍子座的人可以逃避這點。因為，本質的東西，深植於骨髓，扎根於靈魂。　　這裡，我希望通過自己的一點薄見，和大家一起認識這最複雜的蠍子情感強烈是蠍子座的人最普遍的特點。我至今沒有發現感情因子欠乏的蠍子。他們有著異常熾熱的感情，但大多藏得較深，平時看來是個比較和氣的人，一般不爆發，爆發時絕對是噴湧而出的，有著強大的震懾力.能促使蠍子爆發深藏的感情的事情其實並不多。我總結了三種情況。　　一是欺騙，這種欺騙也許不是很大，也許發生在很好的朋友甚至親友之間，也許只是一樁小事，但蠍子看來，重要的不是欺騙造成了什麼損失，而是欺騙這種行為本身，他認為這是強烈的不信任感，是對他的不尊重。一個小小的欺騙在蠍子的心中會激盪起巨大的不快，天性陰冷的蠍子習慣將它放大來看，也可以說這種與他們處事風格準則背道而弛的行為是他們輕蔑並排斥的。用欺騙傷害蠍子產生的裂痕一般是不容易消除的。當事人在蠍子心中的地位可以說馬上會大幅下降。經觀察，沒有哪個星座的人像蠍子這樣如此深地看重信任和尊重這兩個詞，他們一般對此都很敏感。敏感得容下不在他許可的小小範圍內出現一粒沙。越是親密關係間的欺騙對蠍子的傷害就越大。因為他們對朋友往往交出真心，而這種付出償來的若是欺騙和背叛的話，蠍子的心會冷到極點。　　二是侮辱。敏感的蠍子其實並不那麼開得起玩笑，當然他們能敏銳地分辨出你話裡的真實含義，善意的玩笑他們還是不會拒絕的。但帶刺的話他們絕對能馬上聽出，他能感受到你語氣中的真實的感情成分。很自我的蠍子絕對不容忍別人侮辱他貶低他。也許一件事情讓他糟糕，讓他吃虧很大，但如果需要的話他能壓抑住自己的情緒，裝作若無其事。惟獨侮辱不可以，你可以感受到蠍子那一刻表情越發陰冷，牙關緊閉。那是他在積蘊力量，你能感受得到他強壓怒火的眼神，開始起伏的胸膛，只需要一個小小突破口，巨大的能量就要噴薄而出。這個時候，瞭解他們的人還是趕緊收口吧，否則誰都不知道會發生什麼可怕的事情。我自己就經歷過多次這樣的情景，從來都是是猛烈的瞬間爆發，不明白的人奇怪怎麼突然發這麼大脾氣，其實真實情況是，他忍著氣已經很久很久了，只是你硬逼他爆發的。　　三是為了他認為重要的人。蠍子是活得孤獨的人，他們自己都會發現，自己和許多人是格格不入的，他滿臉的笑容很多時候都不是發自內心的，只是為了場合的需要，真正談得來並懂得他們的朋友一般很少很少。生命中他重視的人他一定會傾力保護，蠍子為了保護那個人時，顯現出的感情是強大的。這個人最大的可能就是曾在蠍子需要時給過真正理解溫暖關愛的人。哪怕是一點點。像會記恨一樣，蠍子對那些對他真心好的人絕對是記在心上的，沒有太多的表面的東西，關鍵的時候，真正肯為你犧牲的那個朋友，肯定是他。對他最愛的那個人而言，蠍子有可能的話甚至肯為她去死。如果他心中的那個她被別人傷害的話，蠍子會有剜心的痛，這個時候，他可能會暴露出最陰暗的一面，如果要把報復和蠍子聯繫起來的話，那麼這種情況當屬第一。蠍子這時候可能會在巨痛的驅使下，用最黑暗的力量為她去復仇去摧毀敵人。在我看來，蠍子最最強烈感情表現出來的時候，應該就是他為了保護她的時候。水象之王的蠍子外表看來往往不那麼強硬，甚至有點軟弱，這是很多人對他們的印象，但瞭解他們的內心的人就會發現，他們是討厭被指使的人。可以說，蠍子是吃軟不吃硬的，平等對他的話，他便是個性子很好的人，要是想壓制他，蠍子內心馬上會排斥，並且潛意識裡他們是很厭惡習慣對他們指手畫腳的人的。他們心中多數是不服，但不會明顯表現出來，也許暫時地順著對方，背後則默默積累力量，也許乾脆用冷漠直接表示拒絕和厭惡。蠍子確實是喜歡掌控別人的人，但不像火象的獅子那種氣焰上統領一切的感覺，蠍子能用一種獨特的暗藏的力量影響人，因為他有著洞穿別人內心的敏銳力和堅定沉靜的氣質。如果蠍子具備一些火象性格的話，則會是個讓人感覺非常凌厲的人，冷靜的外表下說起話做起事來霸氣十足。蠍子如果學著性格張揚一點的話，會馬上顯現出強大的領導力。蠍子對自己的愛人也有著強烈的掌控欲，只有當那個她只對他一個人好的時候，他才感覺安心，他希望她能常陪在他身邊，希望她能經常依靠他，所以小鳥依人般的溫柔甜蜜的女孩子最能激起蠍子愛的感覺。這就解釋了為什麼他和水象的魚兒和巨蟹很和得來的原因。蠍子比較喜歡不帶表情的說話做事，可以說，蠍子很難學會用表情表達他們豐富的內心世界，他們是不善於利用表情的人。蠍子本質是不愛笑的，尤其不習慣在一大堆人之間肆無忌憚地笑，蠍子習慣淺淺地一笑，讓他們在眾人面前表情誇張地保持10秒鐘我相信是件困難的事情。　　他們確實常給人缺乏親和力的印象，哪怕是他已經認識到了這點並試著去改變了，結果還是會發現，一不留神，他和人的距離感又莫名地產生了。可以說蠍子的笑保留著人類某種原始的東西，蠍子笑起來會帶著絲羞澀，特別是在人多或異性面前。看起來非常孩子氣，讓人感覺純真，顯得乖巧。但蠍子多笑真的比較重要，蠍子笑起來純樸真誠的樣子可以很好地打消他們在別人心中不好的印象。蠍子可以多對著鏡子練習練習。敏感的蠍子有時會莫名地收住笑容，這會給別人不好的印象，他們會納悶並猜想你突然沉下臉的原因，很多時候，蠍子和人的隔閡就是這麼產生的。　　在蠍子的生命中總有一種嚮往孤獨的特質。　　他們即使在受不了淒寂的同時，又渴望得到只有在孤獨時才能享受到的自我極致發揮和無絲毫保留的面對現實。　　所以，孤獨的蠍子是矛盾的。　　孤獨中他們的心靈像眼睛，誠實敏銳得揉不進一粒塵沙。　　所以，孤獨的蠍子更能洞悉謊言與人心。他們只有在孑然一身的時候，才有機會登上精神的高峰，望得遠，看得清，障礙盡除，思維如月光染雪，剔透通明，理智與感情皆回歸到最純淨的狀態，能清楚的照亮自己。　　所以，孤獨的蠍子睿智。　　當蠍子被身邊的孤獨包圍的時候，他們的內心卻是在釋放。他們的身體和靈魂變成了過濾器，吸取著潮濕冰冷的空氣，滲透出清澈甘甜的水滴，那就是他們的思想。思想無限流動，不受空間和時間的限制，抵達所有相通的靈魂。　　所以，當到達你的靈魂時，請你好好珍惜。　　當你看到陌生人面前孤僻而冷淡的蠍子時，請你見諒，因為即興發揮不是蠍子的強項，蠍子一向預熱很慢，感情需要很大的安全感才能活潑的施展。　　所以，當你想要瞭解那些外表形單影隻，獨來獨往的蠍子時，請細心的感受他們內在活動的勃放如春。　　對於天蠍座的激情別人已經寫得夠多的了，以致再寫就顯得有點多餘了。其實那些描述嚴格地來說，也不完全正確。天蠍座的人確實擁有過量的激情。但是這些熱情不一定是用一種顯而易見的方式來表達的。對於天蠍座的人來說，性是一種表達的途徑，它是一種達到秩序的方法，而不僅僅是肉體上激情的釋放。　　天蠍座對性和愛的渴望，通常與它們能提供的轉變有關。他們喜歡把性與愛稱作自己所喜歡的名字：一次神秘的經歷、一次深層次的體會。性與愛讓天蠍座向比他們自己更強大的事物投降。天蠍座的伴侶有一種巨大的容忍力，他們為了愛情和忠貞可以犧牲一切。他們甚至可以做出巨大的自我犧牲。在他們身上有一點狂熱，這會滲透到他們與別人建立的關係中，並且影響他們的精神和態度。　　天蠍座是不會在淺的池塘裡划水的。他們縱身跳入遠遠淹過他們的頭的深度的汪洋。但是有時候可悲的是，在天蠍座所處的關係中釋放出來的狂熱，有時候會導致他們極端的猜疑，並且會讓他們產生強烈的佔有慾。假如天蠍座的人正陷入在愛情當中的時候，這種情況往往就會發生。假如他們沒有真正談戀愛的話，那麼他們情感的大門就永遠不會在你面前出現，你將面臨真正的情感上的堅冰

好有趣的一个星期

2010-08-07T22:33:00.002+08:00

这一个星期过得还真有趣。。哈哈。。。让我的假期过得有趣又惊讶，而且是两起在同一个星期，真让我不知如何回应。
“人算不如天算”这句话说的真是好。。事件的进展永远超乎您的想象，外加我反映又迟钝，所以啊，往往什么都不知道。。><
所以再此声明，要是有那里说错的，冒犯了大家，请多多原谅。
那我祝福大家永远快乐，顺顺利利。。 :)

Another Exam Gone~~

2010-07-02T01:52:00.003+08:00

Yesterday, as in 1st of July, as the examiner said "Dear candidates, you have 15 minutes left...", i'm telling myself "You better calm down and continue doing even there's only 15 minutes left"

15 minutes gone and my test paper was taken away from me, and i was telling myself "Why am i so stupid, maybe i'm really nt tat suitable for tis course"

In short, i did badly for my exam even though i've spent more than one week to study for all 3 subjects . I'm wondering hw can i handle tis in next sem since i'll be having 4 subjects during final.

Every year, since we're from age of 5 to now, we have been facing one exam after another bt yet the phobia of exam nvr leave our side. It sticks to us just like super glue. I'm always wondering, is it necessary to have exam to judge our progress? Or is it a preparation for us so that we are able to face all the challenges in the outside world? Or is it just a way human used it to judge and differentiate among people?

What is the truth? I doubt i know the specific one but one thing for sure, people who have good results are categories to be smart and people who don't are just normal.. xD

Exam in kindergarten is just for fun.

Exam in primary is just for learning.

Exam in secondary is just for the future.

Exam in university is just for job.

Exam in society is just for survive.

Basically that's what exam means to me..

When will i end tis life that is full of examination? Maybe the answer will only be revealed after i'm near to the end of my life (^.^)

But for NOW.

LETS ENJOY OUR HOLIDAY AS A STUDENT WHILE WE CAN

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无聊的一天

2010-03-04T12:33:00.004+08:00

坐在这里，发发呆。。
想出去，又不知道去那。。。
想去买东西，又不想一个人去逛街。。
想找朋友一起逛街，又怕打扰他们。。
想着想着，就放弃了。。

有的时候，还真想知道我这个人活在这世上到底为了什么。。
从小，读书占据了大部分的时间，外加不善以人际关系，朋友也不多，没什么出去玩耍。。
到了大学，觉得该有点改变了。。
开始和朋友们去走走，吃点好的，露营等等。。
渐渐的，朋友也变多了。。
朋友都是一帮很不错人。品德好，孝子孝女，乐观，开得起玩笑，乐意助人，读书至上的一帮人。。
哈哈。。他们真的让我体验了不一样的生活。。

最近，几个要好的朋友出国去了，还真怀念大家在一起胡闹的日子。。
看着大家为了自己的未来冲刺，不再为了无为的事而烦恼，抱怨。
忽然间觉得大家不再是乳臭味干，天真无邪的小孩了。。
大家变得成熟，稳重，乐观，也了解了现实的惨酷。。
看着大家的成长，我真怀疑我有没有也长大了呢？

到了这把年纪，开始有人问了，几时要交个男朋友啊？
这些问题让我很难回答，所以都只是对他们笑了一笑，化解了问题。。
朋友呢，就问问我喜欢哪些类型的？
老实说，我没有要哪些类型的。我要的只是一个跟我谈得来，接受我性格的人。。
所以，感情这门东西，不是我想要就有的，还是顺其自然最好，急不来的。。
我个人观念还是觉得好好赚点钱，养得活自己和家人，感情就慢慢来。。

现在我的人生就是要把书读完，再考虑要不要继续升学。。

如果要把人生综合来看，人的一生就是做几样事
1 读书
2 做工--〉赚钱
3 结婚--〉养子女
4 养老

哈哈。。还真不多事做呢

我的人生也会如此吗？

HAPPY NEW YEAR

2010-01-01T00:25:00.002+08:00

WELL... Nt been updating my blog since july as u can see from the previous post...
Why is it so??
Easy answer
Cox nthg to write abt.. daily life is normal and so does uni life

So Hoping for a change in the LIFE STYLE i'm having nw
Get more sociable
Get more hardworking
Get more sleep
Get more fun
Get more updated with FREN status ( scare her scold me again... haha :P )
Get more luck
Get more .......

Hmm.. better dont ask too much ><

HAPPY NEW YEAR TO EVERYONE OUT THERE
MAY UR YEAR BE FILLED WITH JOY AND LAUGHTER

Hw small is tis world??

2009-07-19T21:05:00.002+08:00

Well... been on holiday for around 3 weeks bt been jux notified it will end in 3 weeks also

sometime i do wish it wont end tat fast even though it's quite boring staying at home and sleep and eat and do nothing for the rest of the day.. therefore, go find some old frenz chit chat and see hw's they're going.

Then tis is wat i realise....

The world is quite small.. haha... Someone tat u knw is actually ur frenz de frenz... Amazing!!! or should i say my network(friends) is nt huge enough.. ><

Recommending an anime "You're under arrest" which i have been watching tis holiday.. Got the complete three season already.. missing the movie nia...

Haha.. Holiday is really making me much much more lazy.. Need to find sthg to do other than anime le..

HAPPY HOLIDAYS AND GUD LUCK IN UR RESULTS(coming out on the 22july T.T )

4th Week

2009-03-25T20:12:00.000+08:00

Guess wat??

It's been four week oredy!!!

So.......

Welcome to the fourth week of the semester!!! >< >(dont feel like mentioning it anymore)

Started to fall in love with badminton and find myself some second handed rackets which is much much better than the one i'm having now :)

Find out that uni life is really interesting and i should enjoy it when i'm still studying

Fall in love with my timetable

Worrying for my assignment and topo work since it doesnt seem easy

Try nt to get late during class

Been thinking of finding some earning since i've been broke tis month.. Haha

Been worrying for the training i have to do during the end of the year

Been thinking of going travelling with frens when there's time.. Haiz.. nvr hav chance to go travelling myself

Hmm...

It seems that the last few week was fun and hope for the best in the coming few weeks...

Cheers

无奈

2009-02-19T12:40:00.004+08:00

最近，常会听到朋友们诉说着要去外国读书。。哈哈。。好羡慕他们哦！！不过，没办法咯，我只能在这里好好的把书读完，也许就已经不错了。如果有机会的话，我也想去外面试试看。看看一个人生活会是怎么样的。也许会变得更加独立吧。。现在的我，要是没人管的话，生活会一团糟吧 ><

人的青春是有限的。也只有在年轻时，胆量会比较大，敢去冒险，敢尝试新东西，敢去闯。当人已到了一段年纪，就会失去这个胆量，因为必须顾虑到很多东西，比如说家庭，经济，健康 bla bla bla... 反正，就是想安顿下来，好好的过日子。年轻时的梦想已不实际了。

所以啊，趁年轻时，好好的去外面走一走，开开自己的眼界，看看自己多么的渺小，世界有多么的大！！

我呢，没办法去外国留学，那只好往自己的胸膛拍一拍，告诉自己会有机会的，也许不是去留学，而是一个人去旅游，就像背包族一样，在某一个国家住上一段时间，再往下一个目的地前近。 ^^ 前提是，我必须好好的吧书读完，赚钱，才有办法实现吧。。

对于那些有机会去外国留学的人，要好好扽的念哦，因为你们是幸福的 :)

Hot

2009-02-17T16:08:00.003+08:00

Kuching nw is really really hot!!! Hw i hope it can at least rain a bit :@

well, i cant control the weather though ><

So, new semester is coming up very very very soon liao..

how's is everyone preparing for it?? (swinburne's students)

For me, haha.. dont knw whether to feel happy or feel sad!!

Holidays seem to be nice in the sense that u can jux relax and feel free to do anything u like.. u can go out anytime and watch as much movie as u wan.. but when it's a long holiday, u started to get bored and found out that ur money runs out faster than u can think of.. In the end, have to stay at home since no more money left to go out and play ( dad doesnt give pocket money during holidays) ... :(

when semester starts, u would wish to have ur holiday much more than anything!! All that time spending in uni and study and study and assignment and assingment and tutorial and tutorial and all the searching info and bla bla bla... It's really stressy.. especially u have to wake up on time to attend for classes.. Everything is so restrain when semester started.. Parents start nagging abt ur studies, worrying abt results and hoping for more money to come from the loans..

haha...

very weird right??

People jux never satisfied with what they have..
They would jux wish more and more eventhough they already have enough
Maybe that is jux the way to get RICH :)

Car

2009-02-11T13:57:00.002+08:00

Haha... My car out of hospital lo

It got well faster than i though

Can go out and gud thing didnt spend too much money in fixing

Jux realise min update a lot on her blog

haha....

Car "Sick" !!!!

2009-02-09T11:10:00.002+08:00

my small car broke down...
well, which mean no car for me for another week!!! Haiz...
I jux gt my car back for one week nia le...

Arggghhhhhhhh............

Oh ya, nt me tat make my car sick oh.
So, who is responsible le??

This is hw the story begun....

the week (thursday) before new year, my cousin called us up and said he wanna borrow the car.. Immediately my mum said yes.. Ok, that's fine then.. When my dad reached home, the car was gone and he said that he still need to change the enjin oil.. So, no one changed the oil

One week passed...

Finally, he returned the car on tat sunday.. We drove the car back and i started to hear sound from the car. I though it has sthg to do with the air-cond since tat has always been the main problem of my car.

My dad been busy last week since he started working already.. but nt much driving occured last week until yesterday we went to santubong..

When we're nearly home, the car get over heated... Haha....

we checked - no oil and no water !!! AND , realise that when the water is being filled in the water tank, it wil jux come out at the end where it's connected to the enjin.

BIG PROBLEM !!!

my dad said this is what happen when you drive too fast and too long.. Since the sound come straight after the car is being returned, he gt angry abt him...
We do knw he drive very fast and he's staying quite far from the city when he's here..

Well, for me i think there's no one to blame...
it's only us who has to be blame cox that is our car and it's our responsibilities...
the decision to borrow it to others is also being decided by us

Money is gone again...

Haha... Nw park at home cant drive..
that mechanic is not working on the last day of new year...

Since it's the last day of new year, let me say it for one last time

HAPPY NEW YEAR TO EVERYONE
MAY UR YEAR BE FILLED WITH LAUGHTER AND JOY

ENJOY

2008-11-27T14:47:00.003+08:00

YEAH!!!!!!

Holiday is here :)

Finally, reach the last day of the exam..
It really feels like ages even though it's only 4 days..
All those worries and tensions is all gone.. Gone Gone Gone...

HAHA... HAHA... HAHA.....

To celebrate our freedom after the long 14 weeks ( tired but enjoyable weeks), steamboat tonight....

Gonna eat a lot since not much change to eat tis kind of stuff .. >< Starting of holiday is fun but also boring since it will a long long holiday ... ( until next year march i think) So, anyone, my friends, get me out of the house if u can... If nt sure i rotten at home..

HOPE CAN GO DAMAI!!!!!

Tagged by Adrian .....

2008-11-10T00:23:00.003+08:00

INSTRUCTIONS:
1. The tagged victims have to come up with eight different points of his/her perfect lover.
2. Have to mention the gender of his/her perfect lover.
3. Tag eight other victims to join this game and leave a comment on their blog.
4. If you are tagged the second time, there’s no need to do this AGAIN.
5. Lastly, most importantly, HAVE. FUN. DOING. IT.

My perfect guys....
1. Has to be taller than me of course... Haha... i'm too short oredy...

2. Must have a gud personality :-
dont drink - a bit can la but nt until drunk
dont gamble - no mercy on tis
dont smoke - also no mercy on tis
loving, caring, loyal, must love family type.....

3. He should be a person that can talk ...

4. oh ya... gud looking too... Haha...

5. Always be there when u need him

6. Dont be too stingy and lo so....

7. .......

8. .......

7 and 8 will be filled up when i get to see more guys
Haha....

hmm.... dont knw tag who le...
So i dont tag lo....

p/s: anyone who is interested can also answer tis question

"世间万物，难免一死"

2008-11-10T00:06:00.001+08:00

"世间万物，难免一死"

这句是我在看着一部卡通片里，一位角色所说的话，一句很简单，却无法避免的事实。
今年里，我陆陆续续送走了两个最亲近的亲戚。一个是我的二舅，一个是我三叔。在短短的半年里，看着他们失去父亲，然我觉得害怕。害怕那一天是我父母的时候，我会怎么办。我不肯定那时的我不会哭，也不看肯定我会哭，唯一很肯定的是，我会很害怕，很寂寞，很怀念，很自责。

很害怕因为他们是我最信赖的人，没了他们我不知道我还会有所谓的安全感。
很寂寞因为他们是我最能坦白的对象，没了他们我不知道还能向谁所我心里的话。
很怀念因为对他们永远把你当小孩看待，不离不弃，没了他们就如失去了自己的一半。
很自责因为没能回报更多，把所有他们所爱和所想要的一一为他们实现，就如他们实现我们所要的。

不过，我也会很开心，因为他们将从真个社会解脱，毫无负担，过着真真的自由。

面临死亡是人生的必经之路，我们永远不知道我们的寿命会有多长，哪怕下一秒钟，就离开了人间。所以，珍惜每一分每一秒，快快乐乐的过每一天，感谢一年的过去，欢迎新的一年。记得人生的喜怒哀乐，因为那是个过程，一个生存的证明。虽然任何人之间会有很多争吵，但是，要爱你身边的每一个人。最重要的是，要对自己的人生满意，无怨无悔。那么，当你离开时，就会对人生感到快乐，没有遗憾。

所以，从今天开始，享受人生。还有，记得要保持笑容。 :)

Tagged by Min Min .... :(

2008-10-10T14:16:00.003+08:00

A N S W E R - T R U T H F U L L Y

1. Do you like anyone?
~ i like myself... Haha...

2. Do they know it?
~I knw it

3. Simple or complicated?
~simple

IN - T H E - L A S T - M O N T H - H A V E - Y O U

4. Bought something:
~yup

5. Gotten sick?
~nop...

6. Been hugged?
~Nop

7. Felt stupid?
~always

8. Talked to an ex
~no ex....

9. Missed someone
~Hmm... Haha...

10. Failed a test
~YES!!!!

11. Danced
~ No.

12. Gotten your hair cut?
~ Not within tis year

13. Lied
~ yes... :P

U N I Q U E

14. Nervous habits?
~feel very cold and shiver....

15. Are you double jointed?
~ wat is tat??

16. Can you roll your tongue?
~ nop

17. Can you raise one eyebrow?
~ not really

18. Can you cross your eyes?
~nop

19. Do you make your bed daily?
~i dont make my bed, i bought it... Haha..

20. Do you think you are unique?
~every human is unique...

H A V E - Y O U - E V E R'S

21. Said "I Love you"
~yup...

22. Given money to a homeless person
~nop cox not yet earn money.. bt parents will donate

23. Smoked?
~ nvr tried... not gud for lungs

24. Waited all night for a phone call?
~ nvr...

25. Snuck out?
~i dont wan to be bomb...

26. Sat and looked at the stars?
~Yup... Like tat very much

M A N N E R S

27. Do you swear/curse?
~ sometime, when really angry..

28. Do you ever spit?
~ yup

29. You cook your own food?
~Sometimes.

30. You do your own chores?
~ Sometimes

31. You like beef jerky?
~ nt really...

32. You're happy with your life?
~ I'm happy but nt statisfied

33. You own a dog?
~nvr have the chance.... T.T

34. You spend your money wisely?
~ sometime i dont

35. Do you like to swim?
~yup

36. When you get bored do you call a friend
~ nop.. i'll sms... cheaper bah

D O - Y O U - P R E F E R'S

37. Flowers or angels?
~flowers

38. Gray or black?
~black of course.. i like black!^^

39. Color or black and white photos?
~ color

40. Lust or love?
~love

41. Sunrise or sunset?
~sunset

42. M&Ms or Skittles?
~ M&Ms.

43. Staying up late or waking up early?
~ staying up late... cox can do hw without disturbance

44. Being hot or cold?
~ nt too hot or cold...

45. Winter or Fall?
~ winter..

46. Left or right?
~ right

47. Having 10 acquaintances or 2 best friends?
~ dont knw le... bt nt much la...

48. Sunshine or rain?
~rain

M O R E-H A V E-Y O U-E V E R'S

49. Been Dumped?
~ nop

50. Stolen money from a friend?
~nop

51. Been in a fist fight?
~No.

52. Snuck out of your house?
~ No. -.-'''

53. Had a crush on a teacher?
~No.

54. Seen someone die?
~ Yes.. twice tis year...

55. Been on an airplane?
~ only four five times... hope to get more when grow up... haha...

56. Slept all day?
~ No la... latest is till 11am...

57. Missed someone so much it hurt?
~ Nvr...

58. Fallen asleep during school?
~ feel sleepy but nt fallen asleep

59. Been lonely?
~ sometimes

60. Cheated in a game?
~yup..

61. Been to the ER?:
~wat is ER??

62. Been in a car accident?
~yup.. few times

63. Had detention?
~ nvr

64. Missed your first love?
~not yet first love....

65. Cried yourself to sleep?
~if sthg really sad

66. Sung in the shower?
~ nt really cox broken voice

67. Kissed a complete stranger?
~ crazy ar.....

68. Laughed so hard you cried?
~ always

69. Cheated on a bf/gf?
~ nvr

70. Regretted hurting someone?
~only once, i think.. haha..

71. Regretted loving someone?
~ nvr

I tag:
Chung Chin Fong
Lau Chee Cheng
Frederic Wong

Hi....

2008-09-28T20:19:00.003+08:00

Hello...
So long didnt update lo!!!!!!!!
Hehe...
Today update some photos i grab from my friends(their photos)....

Tis is LMM (her birthday tat day)

Tis is YLC

Haha... CUte pic right..

一個美乃滋罐子跟兩杯咖啡的故事

2008-08-13T12:29:00.002+08:00

這一天的哲學課，教授站上了講台
他卻不發一語，只是從講桌底下拿出了一個空的美乃滋瓶罐。
接著他拿出了一袋高爾夫球
他把整袋的高爾夫球塞進了美乃滋空罐裡
然後教授就問學生同不同意這個罐子已經是滿的了
學生們當然是同意。

接著，教授又從桌子下拿出了一杯小小的鵝卵石

他慢慢地把鵝卵石往罐子倒

邊倒邊搖，

不一會兒

所有的高爾夫球間的縫隙

竟也都填滿了鵝卵石。

這時，教授又問學生同不同意

這個美乃滋罐子已經是滿了？？？

學生當然是同意。

可是，話才剛說完

教授又從講桌底下拿出了一杯細沙子

教授又用同樣的方法

邊倒邊搖的把沙子填滿了鵝卵石之間的小縫隙。

教授又問了大家同不同意

這回罐子是真正的滿了？？？

同學說應該是全滿了，沒有空間了。

想不到同學才剛答完話

教授又從講桌下拿出了兩杯咖啡來

開始徐徐地往美乃滋罐子裡倒

直到兩杯咖啡全部到進罐子裡，一滴也不剩。

倒完咖啡後

教授笑著對同學們說：

『現在的美乃滋罐子才是真正的滿了啦。』

同學們也跟著笑了起來

就在整個教室的歡笑聲裡

教授說話了

『你們知道我今天做這個表演，是要告訴你們什麼嗎？

我是要用這個美乃滋罐來告訴你們一個道理

一個關於我們一生的哲理。

這個美乃滋空罐就是我們的人生

高爾夫球就是我們生命中的一些大事

例如：上帝，家庭，小孩，朋友，健康，還有你的摯愛。

生命裡沒有那些小鵝卵石或是沙子沒關係

可是要是缺了這些大事情

我們的生命根本沒有意義。

小小的鵝卵石就是我們生命中的其他的事情

例如：工作，房子，車子等等東西。

至於那細沙子就是我們生命中的小事

那些細微不重要的瑣事。

今天我的表演

如果是一開始就先把沙子灌滿美乃滋罐子

那就根本沒有空間好放入高爾夫球跟鵝卵石

同樣地，如果我是先倒鵝卵石

那也是會沒有空間好給高爾夫球。

我們的生命就是這樣的

如果你盡是把寶貴的時間花在細微的瑣事上

你就不可能有時間去處裡重要的事情。

所以，我們該多花時間去注意

那些會關係到我們快樂與幸福的事情

多跟我們的小孩一起

多去陪陪我們的父母、祖父母，多些時間給家人

多注意自己的身體健康

不要擔心家事做不完

不用擔心房子還沒粉刷

不要擔心花園還沒整理
我們會找到時間來做這些事情的

先多花些心思在那些重要的大事情上吧

生命只有一回

我們把事情的輕重緩急跟優先順序弄清楚

生命才會有意義

教授說到這裡

有個同學舉手了

教授，那兩杯咖啡又代表著什麼呢？

『我很高興你問這個，』教授回答道

這兩杯咖啡就是要告訴我們

不管我們的美乃滋罐看起來是裝得多滿

我們總是可以有空間跟朋友一起享受杯咖啡的！

我們的一生似乎總是這麼的忙

有這麼多的事情要處裡

似乎是一天的 24 小時總是不夠用？

如果你還是這麼想的話

想想『一個美乃滋罐子跟兩杯咖啡』的故事吧。

2008-08-07T23:20:00.000+08:00

You Are a Good Friend Because You're Loyal

You stick with your friends no matter what, even if you feel like they're doing the wrong thing.

You believe in letting people figure out their own path in life. It's not your place to interfere.

And part of your loyalty means that you'll do a lot for your friends. You definitely go the extra mile.

You'll even do great things for friends without them asking. After all, that's what friendship is all about.

You are truly a friend for life. And you have friends you've known since you were a kid.

Your friends can count on you to do a favor, remember a birthday, or just be there to listen.

Your friends need you most when: They can't turn to anyone else

You really can't be friends with: Fickle people who change friends quickly

Your friendship quote: "Friendship doubles your joys, and divides your sorrows."

What Makes You a Good Friend?

End of Holiday!!!!

2008-08-05T11:14:00.002+08:00

Hi everyone....
I've finally returned to update my blog since new semester already started.

Yesterday was my first day of school and i had such a hard time to get myself into the mood of studying :p

My mind still feels like playing for a few days since i've been playing for more than a month by watching all sort of anime..

it's really hard to get concentrated in class and i cant even write properly (too long didn't write)

Anyway, i did have a great time talking to friends but also sad since i didn't get my loan .. T.T
I really need tat loan!!!! I jux don't get it why it's always so hard for me to get approved??
Hmm.... No luck with money???
Hope i get it in the next listing...

Holiday was really fun because i've went out to work for the first time in my life... My dad never allowed me to work when i was in secondary school and i finally had my chance.. Hehe...

However, i've only worked for a week in a fast food shop and 3 days in pc fair...

The week in the fast food shop was quite interesting cox i'm working as a waitress and found out that it's really isn't a nice job. I had to stand there no matter there is customer or not and clean up all the mess the customers made on the table. I've also realize that some people really waste their food... They just ordered food that is more than they can eat... Cleaning up b4 and after the operating hours is really tiring too.. And most important of all, tat experience told me tat i should eat more of my mum cooking that outside food.. WHY?? Haha... go for a work at fast food shop and u'll understand wat i mean...

As for pc fair, i worked as a promoter. I personally hated promoter because when they started to talk to me, i jux find it very hard to reject the product they are promoting even though it's not the brand i wanted to buy. So i always ended up buying another different brand from what i wan. Huh... Really have to change this habit...

In order to give myself a chance to change this habit, i worked at pc fair promoting printer.. It was really fun there cox i feel so proud when the printers were sold out after i promoted to the customers.. And i also met a lot of old friends or old classmates and also teachers or lectures.. 3 days standing for nearly 12 hours a day really tired me up but it's worth it.. I've used up my 3 days salary to buy myself an external hard disk (250GB) as a reward.. Now i can jux download wat ever anime i wan to watch and dont have to worry for space anymore... And most of all, it feels nice jux to spend the money u earn urself..

This holiday i ended up trying for two jobs and even though i didn't work for a very long time at both job, i treasure the experience i had and cant' wait to go for another job for the next holiday.. But for nw, study is more important... Haha...

Kampate for all my friends in the new semester and also those who will be having their test soon...

May luck be with you :)

一道终身受用的测试题

2008-07-16T21:55:00.002+08:00

你开着一辆车。
在一个暴风雨的晚上。
你经过一个车站。

有三个人正在焦急的等公共汽车。

一个是快要临死的老人，他需要马上去医院。
一个是医生，他曾救过你的命，你做梦都想报答他。
还有一个女人/男人，她/他是你做梦都想嫁/娶的人，也许错过就没有了。

但你的车只能在坐下一个人，你会如何选择？
我不知道这是不是一个对你性格的测试, 因为每一个回答都有他自己的原因。
老人快要死了，你首先应该先救他。
你也想让那个医生上车，因为他救过你，这是个好机会报答他。
还有就是你的梦中情人。错过了这个机会。你可能永远不能遇到一个让你这么心动的人了。

在200个应征者中，只有一个人被雇佣了，他并没有解释他的理由，他只是说了以下的话：

'给医生车钥匙，让他带着老人去医院，而我则留下来陪我的梦中情人一起等公车!' 每个人我认识的人都认为以上的回答是最好的，但没有一个人（包括我在内）一开始就想到。

小哲理：
是否是因为我们从未想过要放弃我们手中已经拥有的优势（车钥匙）?
有时，如果我们能放弃一些我们的固执，狭隘，和一些优势的话，我们可能会得到更多。

Time really dont stop, dont they??

2008-05-16T12:46:00.003+08:00

Eee... time jux go off that fast!!!!

It's been nearly one and a half year i left secondary school and be at uni...

Remember the day I finished my SPM ... Tat feeling was so nice cox finally I've finish my "long waited" test and our beloved holiday will be coming :) But during the holiday, time to worry for which college to go or continue Form six..

Then, come year 2007 and i've decided to go for swinburne to take my engineering course.. That intake was in january and it's only a foundation course.. That time i get to knw some new frens and experience a study environment tat is totally different than secondary.. Really hard to get myself into the situation at first cox everything is in english but guess wat, one year oredy passed and nw i'm in my degree level and going to have my final test soon!!!!!

Scary right??? Time jux go off without realising.. Everytime you open your eyes is a new day and i'm always wondering "Did i spend the day before wisely?", "Oh, one day nearer to the final.. Cham", "Lesser day for doing my report" and many more...

Haha... what to do?? Time wont wait for u bt u have to chase for it...

Games!!!!

2008-05-02T12:38:00.002+08:00

Hey hey,... i've founded a website that rear DINO for fun that include fighting..
The only thing u have to do is sign up and play....

Waseh!!!

2008-04-22T22:15:00.003+08:00

Haha... see me blogging while rushing to finish my assignment.... and guess wat, i still got a page to go... why i blog?? cox i get so blur abt wat i'm writing nw and so much thing to read jux to put in the info i wan.
Why should i suffer like tat? cox i chose the engineering course right...
If say i regret studying enginering,
emm...
i dont think i regret but it's jux tat it 's sometimes really hard to understand wat i'm learning
anyway... jux to find other thing to write before i continue my assignment
Hope can finish tonite...

Take life easy.. WHY??

2008-04-16T16:36:00.004+08:00

A msg i received some time ago
Tell u why take life easy

........Start thinking now........

IF
1=5
2=25
3=125
4=625
5=???

Think first before u look at the answer

Answer is 1 !!!
Why??
Remember the First Line??
1=5
So, Don't Complicate Simple Problems in Life

Be Positive in life and u will find life to be more colourful

Smile always ( ^.^)
HAHAHAHA........

City of my Own

2008-04-02T22:59:00.002+08:00

Haha.. Created my "Good Gracious" city.....

Do come and visit more often to develop my city..

女生看一看....

2008-03-27T20:03:00.004+08:00

我收到一封有趣的信息,
所以要和大家分享.
如有语言不恰当请原谅.

女人的问题是:

如果你对她好,
她说应该的;
对她不好,
她说你有新的。
如果你很有钱,
她说拿点钱来用,
如果你没钱,
她说你很差。
如果你跟女生出去，
她说你找死；
如果他跟男生出去，
她说是同学聚会！
如果你要和她做爱，
她说它来了；
如果你跟她做了，
她说是你强逼她！
如果你喝酒，
她说你乱花钱；
你说她买多衣服，
她说她打扮给你看。
如果你没信用卡，
她说你没信用；
如果每天打电话给她，
她说你很烦！
如果没打电话给她，
她说你没关心她！
如果买花送她，
她说又要哄她做爱；
如果不买花送她，
她说你不浪漫！
如果你寄这封信给女生，
她会发誓以上不正确的，
如果你不寄给她们，
她们说你自私。。。。
快转寄这邮件给女生吧！
转寄给男生，让他笑一笑！:)

Our Dreams Olympic 2008

2008-03-22T12:58:00.005+08:00

Enjoy the song.....

Get tagged by jeff

2008-03-22T11:51:00.008+08:00

5种你最希望得到的礼物：
1。一个假期 ,不过不要太常长
2。身边的人常点笑
3。身体好一点
4。顺顺利利的一年
5。多点娱乐 (快闷死了)

谁tagged我：jeffrey

对他/她的5个印象：
1。爱玩电脑游戏
2。很会交新朋友
3。敢说话的人
4。很爱很爱足球
5。对朋友都不错

他/她对你做过最难忘怀的事：
没又eh.....

他/她对你说过最难忘怀的话：
也没有eh....

如果他/她成为你的爱人，你会：
没想过....

如果他/她成为你的敌人，原因会是：
不会的....永远是朋友

你想要把这个游戏交给哪5个朋友：
1。Pei Yuan
2。Yew Shan
3。Frederic
4。Chee Cheng
5。Chin Fong

1。谁是NO.3的另外一半？
没又哦.... (still available)

2。谁是NO.5的另外一半？
Still single....

4。那么NO.4和NO.5？
都是男的, 怎么可能!!!!!

5。NO.3读什么哟？
Bachelor in engineering(Robotic and Mechanic)....

6。你最后和NO.5聊天？
几天前...

7.NO.4有工作吗？
没有^^

8。你有没有表兄妹表姐弟在他/她的学校？
没有！

9。你会和NO.1在一起吗？
奇怪.. 朋友吧

10。那么NO.5呢？
奇怪.. 朋友吧

11。NO.2有没有兄弟姐妹？
没有... 最小的!!!! 好幸福...

12。你怎样认识NO.2和NO.4？
一个是中学,一个是大学..

13。NO.1住哪里哟?
Jalan Song那一带...

14。你怎样认识NO.2？
在中学啊..

15。NO.5是最性感的人吗？
emm..... 问他本人吧 :)

For everyone i know

2008-03-16T12:05:00.003+08:00

http://miennhietdoi.com/myfriend/

成绩那么重要吗???

2008-03-14T12:14:00.008+08:00

成绩真的那么重要吗???

有的时候还真希望那不是事实.
不过, 世界很现实的. 没有一个好的文凭, 就别想到一份高薪和稳定的工作.
这对女生来说也许是更残酷吧.
虽然说现在男女平等,有些事父母还是觉得女儿不如男孩.
所以,要求女儿读好书是必然的事.
在我身上就体验到了这个事实.
我爱读书,不过有时候,真的好累,因为爸爸他说了那么一句话"如果你是男生,我就不会要求你去读那么多书.我会要你去学一门手艺或做生意".可见他对我是多么的没信心吧...
我妹呢,就常不及格,把他们俩气的要死.也因为如此,电视机和电脑就成为牺牲品,常常把家搞的鸡吵不宁.在严重点,就是每人都挨骂, 卫星就要被拿走. 还真可笑吧....
还不止如此, 还因为教妹读书而常常打打骂骂. 妈妈气的呱呱叫,就跟爸投诉,妹呢就在哭. 又把家搞的吵吵闹闹的.
我真不明白,如果你没办法教育她,何必勉强. 送去补习不就好了吗??成绩又可以进步,你又开心,这样不就俩全其美???
成年人的想法还真难理解.成绩好的时候就什么都没错,不好呢就要说是看太多电视或电脑.不过,事实并非如此吧.你们只是把我们跟别人成绩优秀的孩子比,我们当然逊色多了...

Get tagged...

2008-02-29T12:57:00.003+08:00

1. What is your dream when you were a small kid
- i dreamed to be own a disc shop selling cartoons or anime from all around the world.

2. What is the happiest thing in your life ?
- Around with my family and friends

3. What do you wish to have right now ?
- i wish to buy a new printer

4. When was the last time you horse laugh ?
- Hmm... Don't knw leh

5. What did you realise recently ?
- I'm still have no mood to study (terrible)

6. Which bad habit in you is the most unacceptable ?
- I'm too lazy.

7. When you are unhappy , what will you do ?
-Don't think abt it and watch sthg funny.

8. What are you afraid of losing ?
- My family and friends

9. Within 5 years , which target is the most realistic ?
- Finish my studies and start my jobs

10. When you meet someone you like, will you profess or hide your feelings?
- I'll judge according to the situation eh.

11. List out 3 kind of people you hate the most ?
- Talk Craps
- Like to show how intelligent or how handsome he is
- Smoke

12. Define loneliness
- Feel like there's nthg interesting in this world and wat's the use of living

13. Are you satisfied with your life now ?
- yes

14. When is the most recent time you felt touched ?
- Not at all

15. Where is the most beautiful place that you have visited ?
- I think is NZ since it's more to natural

16. A song that is playing in your mind recently
- None

17. If you had a wish that come true, what is it ?
- Finish my foundation oredy

18. Do you have anything to be worried or scared recently?
- Ya... New semester.

19. If the world is going to end, what will you do?
- i will jux spend my time with my family

20. Do you love the person that tagged you?
-Ya.. A very good friend.....Friends 4 ever

NEW SEMESTER!!!

2008-02-29T12:41:00.003+08:00

Hmm..... Start school liao.. Sometimes really hates to study since it's so stressful

Haha.... Tis semester only got four subjects but guess what, two out of the three subjects are being teach by Indian lecture. One of them is still ok bt the other one is terrible >.< I can't understand what is he saying....

The other lecture is fine cox one is "ang mo" and the other is chinese.... So no problem with understanding. Hehe... and i also joined the drama club. It's quite weird to join tis club because i'm not good in acting and designing. However, there's one part which i think i can handle tat is advertising... If really don't know what to do, I still can learn from others bah.

Like what people always says, "活到老,学到老"

Another thing tat I dislike abt this semester is that we will be having night class on Monday and Friday!!!!

Why do I have to have night class especially during Friday which I usually will be shopping with my family T.T

Haiz.. What to do???? I have to bare with it for this semester loh...

Just hope this semester can go on smoothly and end my studies in 4 years time (2011)

Finally...........

2008-02-24T10:41:00.000+08:00

Haha..... Finally i get to make my hair straight!!!!

It's been quite hard for me to persuade my parents especially my dad to let me straighten my hair.

There's few reasons:
1) if ur hair is sensitive, u may get bald
2) it's expensive
3) ur hair look ok leh
4) no free time

Bla.. Bla.. Bla...

However, i manage to get my mum to bring me to the salon (she's more understanding)

I've spent rm160 on it which i have to cut from my pocket money... :(

So next month i'm broke

ONE thing tat shock me is tat my dad didn't even said anything!!!!!!!

Hmm..... Don't know what's in his mind.

Anyway, i get to do wat i've wanted and tat's satisfied liao.

New Year,New Semester, New Hope, New Effort, New Hair Style.....

Survivor

2008-02-17T16:06:00.000+08:00

jux finish watching the 'survivior'... Wow!! Today's result was unexpected!!!!

if u do watch it, u must be as astonish as me!!!!!

"Fei Long" the group that won three times in a roll and nvr lost in any of the challenges, lost twice in a roll and it's on the reward and immunity challenge. >.<

This was an unexpected result since they have such a strong team.... Maybe it's jux not their luck

One thing for sure, life don't go smoothly and we're sure to face some difficulties in life...

Try to overcome the difficulties and for sure we'll be more mature in the future

Photos

2008-02-16T06:44:00.000+08:00

Finally.. i've got the photos from my dad's fren

Before that, Happy Chinese New Year to everyone who's celebrating.

On the ferry to labuan...

we've to drive tis type of road using 'kancil' !!!!!

tat's noon time k!!!

we're having bbq 'babi hutan' by the roadside and it tasted delicious oh!!!

This is one of the garden in Tenom i think(visited too many place)

Drinking a type of local alcohol.. "yuks"

Look properly!!!

cute cute sea creature

Christmas carol
Their local language one is really special

At a garden

Our final destination b4 back to KK

2007-12-30T16:20:00.000+08:00

Well well.. so long didn't update. Sorry ya.. cox not much thing to write.
But now got sthg new..

I went to KK for a trip on the 18th and return on the 26th.. It's a 8 days 8 night trip.. u can say it's quite a short trip but also quite a long one since i'm very easy to miss my bed...

We went there with my dad's frens all together 12 of us.... Many oh!!!

On the first day, we reach KK at 10.30pm if i had not mistaken. My dad's frens went to take up our car and return around 11 sthg.. We're all so tired and thirsty since there's nthg to drink in the plane(AirAsia mah...where got give drink... Must buy one)

We've rented kancil for our 8 day trip and it's such a small car.. my dad found difficulty in differentiating the oil and the break paddle and keep on complaining.... So funny...

The first nite we slept at around 1am since we had to unload our luggages and went for a supper.. First time in my life my whole family eating outside pass midnite( usually they're all asleep only me on9 or do hw)

Tat's nite was terrible.. All of them couldn't sleep except me since the bed make sound like when ur searching for stuff inside a bunch of plastic bags... Really noisy tat nite... Even i only manage to sleep for an hour or two nia

The next morning we had a long drive to Labuan and bought myself a lot of chocolates.. Actually not really many too since dad said don't buy so much. Went there by ferry really so boring and hot.. Stuck inside the ferry for more than 2 hours and my sis get seasick... Haha.. She's so scared until we had to use speed boat when we wanna go back..

We spent a nite at labuan and the room we rented tat nite was the best among all the nite we had. It's an apartment tat have two big rooms and also a tv for me to watch.. That nite all of us had a good sleep

Tat's all for now... Tell more abt my trip later and also uplode some photo.

Physic, Hungry and Geram

2007-08-31T15:56:00.001+08:00

Hehe.. jux realise tat i only posted twice nia... So now will ganti for not posting

Last nite i had my physic test... and guess wat, i don't know how to do a few questions!!!
But good things is tat there's mcq and it's 20 marks for it. So consider lucky lah

Beside that, last nite was also the first time i drive at nite... My family went out to have dinner since uncle chuo invited them out and actually i'm also invited but......-.-"
Driving at nite is really different since we can't see tat clearly compare to the day... Really can't see clearly but my house is very near so came home safely...

After the test i was so hungry and hoping tat my dad will buy me sthg to eat but guess what.. they didn't... It's not fair lah.. I was busy using my brain to do the physic while they were eating happily at the restaurant... They didn't even buy anything for me to eat...

In the end, eat "maggie" lah and u know wat my dad says to my mum" Maggie mee tasted better than wat we eat jux now"... So geram when i heard tat( of course can't express out in front of them) Haha.....

2007-08-29T19:00:00.000+08:00

Wow... Tomolo test physic loh!!!! And it's at nite... will feel very tired eh??

So SCARY ah!!!

Don't know can a not.. I am like half understand and half not

Hehe.. so i plan to skip my finite class and stay at home to study...

Do u think it's correct to do so?? It's my first time to skip class eh... feel a bit uncomfortable and don't know what to tell my dad... He's very serious when it comes to school stuff... Nvr ever let me skip class unless I'm really really sick (High Fever)..

Haha... don't care lah... Hope me good luck tomolo...

birthday.birthday..birthday..

2007-08-08T22:49:00.000+08:00

Wow... Very HOT!!!!!!!! Today is like staying in an oven no matter where we go..(T.T)
Hehe.. Today one of my friends become "Legal" already... Haha.. and guess who???

It's pei yuan!!!CONGRATULATIONS

Actually today is not really his birthday but we celebrate it earlier since we're not free on this friday-10th August
p/s: Better remember tis day or he'll get angry(jux kidding)

Like what we did for "mr.lau" when it's his birthday,we brought pei yuan out to eat and also bought him a big cake... A big cake with 18 candles on it and Pei Yuan, admit it, you grew one year older......

Today there was all together 8 of us going to crown square.. The food at tat restaurant( i can't remember the name since it's so hard to read) is really delicious but like wat we always says ' If you wan sthg nice and good you have to sacrifice$$$$......For me i personally think tat it's worthwhile to give it a try ^-^

Since there's so many of us.. the waitress was so confuse and tell you(don't say it out) There's a few items tat they forgot to count!!! Hehe.. so we earn sthg and this has to thank for the luck tat pei yuan brought for us since it's his party...

of course after all the fun,still have to return to uni to study.. Aiya, wish tat i don't have to study till 6.30pm.. It's so tiring!!! -.-"

Anyway.. HAPPY BIRTHDAY to you pei yuan....

HI!!!!

2007-08-02T11:24:00.000+08:00

Hi... first time playing blog..
So.... Don't be angry if i nvr update!!!!

Smile Always :) and Gambatte 加油加油

感触良多

给未来的我

像风一样自由

人生真的那么难吗？

屁股

Welcome 2011 and Gud bye to 2010

~ (*-*) Merry Christmas (*-*) ~

有的时候，我真不知该怎么办

放松

提不起劲 =.=

Happy Birthday to mY beLoved Country

钱重要吗？

生日快乐

还蛮有意思的。。

好有趣的一个星期

Another Exam Gone~~

无聊的一天

HAPPY NEW YEAR

Hw small is tis world??

4th Week

无奈

Hot

Car

Car "Sick" !!!!

ENJOY

Tagged by Adrian .....

"世间万物，难免一死"

Tagged by Min Min .... :(

Hi....

一個美乃滋罐子跟兩杯咖啡 的故事

End of Holiday!!!!

一道终身受用的测试题

Time really dont stop, dont they??

Games!!!!

Waseh!!!

Take life easy.. WHY??

City of my Own

女生看一看....

Our Dreams Olympic 2008

Get tagged by jeff

For everyone i know

成绩那么重要吗???

Get tagged...

NEW SEMESTER!!!

Finally...........

Survivor

Photos

Physic, Hungry and Geram

birthday.birthday..birthday..

HI!!!!

~ (-) Merry Christmas (-) ~

一個美乃滋罐子跟兩杯咖啡的故事